
| Vol. I Pg. 3 January 22, 2008 Nobody Sees A Flower Time is such an illusive thing. We have all these things we need to do or think we need to do, and there never seems to be enough of "it" to get it all done. On the other hand, it seems like forever, stuck, waiting . . . waiting for "it" to change our present situations. In either case we are always looking out, beyond, somewhere else. For the most part, we as a modern day people, are conditioned to keep moving, to make immediate decisions, to put off personal gratifications for a tomorrow, that we never really have a clear vision of where it is we are going and the beautiful things that we are passing by. We let far too many moments, far too many opportunities, far to much healing, far to much love . . . slip by . . . not even noticing . . . One day, while visiting a critical care facility, I was in one of those rare trances of mind when the world becomes distant and my immediate surroundings, the people, the activities, the decorations, everything about me, became the whole universe, the only thing that mattered . . . I was taking everything in when I found this Poem. " Nobody sees a flower, really - it is so small - we haven't time, and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time . . . " anonymous Maybe it was the way the poem was posted that drew me to it; innocuous among the clutter of everything else that reached out and clamored for attention . Or maybe it was the sense that overcame me following the first reading; the feeling of a child wanting to smile up at me, of that child wanting to be like the Sun and draw me out of the shade, into its light, into its energy, into its warmth, but fearing rejection, the child kept its head bowed, Anyway, I remember saying to myself: "Yes, this is how so many people are". . . and then I remembered a time from my youth, when I had given a gift to my Dad. The gift was a plaque that had the inscription: "Take Time To Smell The Roses" engraved on it and I needed no further than to look at myself for condemnation. A touch of sadness overcame me. The Poem had found and touched me. I felt in my heart that the Poem had been placed there for me. I was reminded of my time, of how I had lived so much of my life up until that moment; of how I had failed to heed my own advice in all the times I had walked by the roses thinking to myself that I would stop and smell them . . . the next time I passed by them. Anyway, I borrowed a pen and copied the Poem onto the back of a green medical form questionnaire. For a long time, the form with the Poem, became mingled in with a stack of other important papers that float on my desk , receiving attention in those rare moments that I shuffle them, thinking that in so doing I'm getting organized. There was no signature attached to the Poem. I had the impression that the Poem was written by a child . . . or at least by someone who was able to see as though through the eyes of a child. What a blessing! As far as I know, the Poem is anonymous. If you know who the Artist is, please let me know. I'd love to acknowledge them. . . and remember to see the small things that take time to see, that take time to have, "like to have a friend, takes time . . ." |






